As the sun sets on 2025, there is a certain pressure—isn’t there? A pressure to be "out," to be loud, to be surrounded by a crowd, and to toast to the future with a forced kind of energy. But here at Older Women Rock On, we know that some of the most profound moments happen in the stillness.
Whether you are flying solo by choice, find yourself without a partner this year, or your spouse is already fast asleep in the other room, tonight belongs to you.
Honor the Reflection
It’s okay to feel the "mix." 2025 likely brought some beautiful mountain-top moments and perhaps a few valleys, too. Take a few minutes to just be with your memories. Light a candle, look at the moon, and acknowledge the strength it took to navigate this year. You’re still here, you’re wiser, and you are rocking this journey.
The "No-Rules" Celebration
Tonight isn't about expectations; it’s about indulgence. Here is your permission slip to enjoy the last hours of the year exactly how you want:
The Forbidden Snack: Go ahead—grab those cookies or that pint of premium ice cream you usually walk past in the grocery store. Within reason for your health, of course, but let yourself enjoy every single bite.
The Entertainment: Forget the fancy gala broadcasts. Queue up the "silly" videos that make you belly laugh, re-watch that comfort movie for the 50th time, or binge-watch the show everyone has been talking about.
Reach Out: Send an uplifting text to a friend who might also be home, or make a quick, friendly phone call to someone who makes you smile. A little connection goes a long way.
Capture the Moment: Take a fun selfie! Put on your favorite scarf, a pair of goofy glasses, or just show off your "cozy-chic" pajamas. Document the version of you that is happy, relaxed, and at peace.
The Midnight Myth
Here is the best part: If you can’t make it until the ball drops, it’s perfectly okay. There is no prize for staying awake until midnight if your body is craving rest. If you head to bed at 10:00 PM, 2026 will still find you in the morning. Your worth isn't measured by a clock; it’s measured by how well you treat yourself.
Enjoy your time tonight. Breathe in the quiet, savor your snacks, and step into 2026 on your own terms!
Marge Farrington OWRO
