Let's face it, for so many people, holidays are really hurtful times. Women tend to talk about those feelings. Speaking for myself, a flood of memories hit me like a wave at this time of year.
I get that "homesick" feeling when thinking of my children when they were young, making the holidays a magical time.
I miss my parents, memories that I tuck away all year make their way to daily thoughts.
So, what do you feel during these times? How do you not only cope with them, but do something to make things better?
I get into my writing, make phone calls to childhood friends I have kept in touch with..they know the real me. I don't just talk, I listen to them.
This year my plan is to do some Christmas shopping for our local pet rescue and also pick up a toy for children in need.
Here are some suggestions you may like:
Volunteer Match is a great place to find a cause you would like to volunteer, how, where and when.
Animal Humane Society Volunteer From in-shelter support to at-home foster care, volunteers are involved in every part of the work we do at all five of our shelter locations. Our volunteers help make the world a more humane place for animals. (if you can't volunteer, there is always a need for food, blankets, etc.)
Newborns in Need
Clothing for the tiniest children
Four years ago, single mom Sue T. delivered her son Daron 14 weeks early. She was poor, alone, and by her own admission, "jaded and cynical." After searching everywhere for affordable clothing that would fit her preemie, she learned about Newborns in Need, which provides clothing and blankets for poor and premature babies.
"When the boxes arrived with the supplies I needed, it restored my faith in humanity," Sue recalls. Her situation improved, and today, she is a volunteer with the organization, helping other women and infants.
Last year, Newborns in Need volunteers distributed more than 350,000 pieces of clothing and baby gear to 2,000 hospitals, shelters, and families across the country. The organization is looking for donations of blankets, sleepers, gowns, all-in-ones, hats, booties, bottles, pacifiers, and disposable diapers. Contact: 417-967-9441 or https://newbornsinneed.org/
Local Food Pantries, Soup Kitchens are always in need of donations or volunteers.
If you are not able to get out to volunteer, you can always make online donations.
Oh, don't forget about yourself, treat yourself to a day out for you. What would you like to give to you! A piece of jewelry you have wanted, get your nails done, a lunch date with someone you haven't seen in awhile..do something for yourself that you would usually make you feel guilty!
**So, today's Bloom, make yourself feel better by giving, to others and to yourself!**
