☘️ Older Women Rock On: Why Three is the Magic Number for Clarity and Fun!

It’s Not Luck, It’s Irish Logic!

Like many of you, I have roots that stretch back to the Emerald Isle—40% Irish, to be exact! My mother was fiercely proud of our heritage, and recently, a brilliant professor popped up on my YouTube feed who has made me feel even closer to those roots: Professor Kate Chadbourne.

She’s a Professor of Irish language and folklore, and she brings the ancient world to life! In fact, she even speaks the historical tongue of the sagas—the rich, complex language known as Old Irish (or Sean-Ghaeilge).

Professor Chadbourne recently shared a fascinating concept: the Triadic Structure (or Thinking in Threes). This isn't just folklore; it’s a powerful, ancient system for organizing our chaotic, beautiful lives. Forget complicated five-step plans; we just need three!

Section 1: The Sacred Rhythm of the Shamrock 🍀

In Irish culture, the number three is everywhere and represents wholeness, balance, and flow.

You see it in the art, like the beautiful Triskele spiral, and in the religious symbolism of the Shamrock.

This love of three is actually a deep cognitive tool. Our brains love three. It’s the Goldilocks number: one is too simple, four is too complicated, but three is just right.

Think about how every good joke or story has a beginning, a middle, and an end. The third element provides the satisfying closure!

The Rock-On Takeaway: Thinking in threes gives your brain a ready-made filing system for life's complicated details, making everything instantly less overwhelming.

Section 2: Three Things to Remember Every Special Time (Holiday Edition!)

We take photos, but the true feeling of a special day often fades into a blur. We can prevent this loss by borrowing the power of the Triad to crystalize our memories.

This idea is especially powerful for busy times like the holidays or any big upcoming event, when moments can rush by! Instead of trying to document everything, you can actively decide, "I will capture just three things." This prevents the memory from becoming an overwhelming jumble of facts.

The next time you are enjoying a milestone, a gathering, or a holiday dinner, consciously commit to remembering just three things. This is the Memory Triad:

1. The Sensory Detail (The "Feel")

Why it works: It ties the moment to your immediate senses.

What to Remember: The specific smell of the pine or a special meal; the sound of a loved one's unique laugh; the way the firelight warmed the room.

2. The Core Emotion (The "Why")

Why it works: Emotion is the glue of memory.

What to Remember: Name the single strongest feeling: Joy, Peace, Pride, or Connection.

3. The Defining Action (The "What")

Why it works: It captures the event's climax or a unique interaction.

What to Remember: The exact quote someone said that made you laugh; the final, triumphant cheer; the first bite of a special meal.

Pro-Tip for the Holidays: Before your next big event, decide what three things you hope to capture. This focused intention will make the day richer, and the memory crystal clear later!

Section 3: The Triad of an Organized Rock-On Life

Let's put this Irish wisdom to work! We can use this simple structure to tackle daily life, projects, and even big problems.

1. Organize Your To-Do List:

Stop making endless lists! Use the Triad of Action:

Capture: Brain Dump every thought onto one page.

Group: Cluster it into three categories (like Home, Work, Self).

Act: Pick the top three items from those lists—and only do those three things today.

2. Structure Your New Habits:

New habits can feel daunting. Give them a framework:

Pre-Game: Prepare for success (e.g., Lay out your workout clothes.)

Main Event: Execute the task (e.g., Do the walk.)

Review: Solidify the habit (e.g., Stretch and plan the next walk.)

3. Handle Any Problem:

When a challenge pops up, don't let anxiety take over. Define your path in three parts:

The Problem: State it clearly and simply.

The Fear/Challenge: Acknowledge the obstacle or emotion.

The Next Step: Name the one concrete action you will take today to move forward.

Conclusion: Rock On with Three!

The Irish gave us amazing stories, powerful music, and—lucky for us—a secret weapon for mental clarity. We don't need complicated systems; we just need the power of three!

By embracing the Triadic Structure, you’re not just being efficient, you’re connecting to an ancient, satisfying wisdom that brings order to your mind.

What three things are you going to focus on today? Share your most recent 'Memory Triad' from a special moment in the comments!

You Can Check Professor Kate Chadbourne's Video  Here

Marge Farrington OWRO 
 

Aging Gracefully

                                                                       

As November gets closer, the big 60 is coming. Yep, hitting that 60 years old mark! I can remember when I was growing up thinking how old that number was! My grandparents, my parents, now, me? Really?

I don't feel my age most of the time. I am grateful to be here, so many don't make it this far. My mother-in-law died at the age of 47, my sister-in-law was only 52, a cousin in his 40's.

I have always loved the outdoors. As a kid, I would be outside, riding bikes, playing games all day. Now, I take walks, taking in the beauty of nature. I am in awe of it all!

I have had health issues in the past and know just how fast life can change. 

Our culture focuses on youth. I feel our most precious treasures are older people. They have been where the youth are going. 

No drama, laugh often, be grateful, love lots!

"Old age is no place for sissies" Bette Davis

It's My Bloomin' Birthday!

                                                                         

                                        

                                        Butterflies are free We are too If we choose to be!

Today, I choose to be and I say Happy Birthday to me!

Living in an area where we have had forest fires for almost two months, we really needed rain. This morning I woke up to rain that had fallen all night. What an amazing birthday gift! I haven't seen the skies this blue in awhile. And I heard birds singing, a sound that's been silent for too long.

I find as I have gotten older, I reflect more on the past. Through the years, I learn to let go of negative, painful times, not to give power to those who have hurt me. 

It's important to focus on gratitude. Appreciate life, be thankful that I am here.

Fortunately, I am able to get outside today, where I really do feel free. Feeling the wind, enjoying the sunshine. 

It is my birthday celebration. And I am very grateful.

Holidays, Hurtful Times and Giving

Let's face it, for so many people, holidays are really hurtful times. Women tend to talk about those feelings. Speaking for myself, a flood of memories hit me like a wave at this time of year.

I get that "homesick" feeling when thinking of my children when they were young, making the holidays a magical time.

I miss my parents, memories that I tuck away all year make their way to daily thoughts.

So, what do you feel during these times? How do you not only cope with them, but do something to make things better?

I get into my writing, make phone calls to childhood friends I have kept in touch with..they know the real me. I don't just talk, I listen to them.

This year my plan is to do some Christmas shopping for our local pet rescue and also pick up a toy for children in need.

Here are some suggestions you may like:

Volunteer Match  is a great place to find a cause you would like to volunteer, how, where and when.

Animal Humane Society Volunteer From in-shelter support to at-home foster care, volunteers are involved in every part of the work we do at all five of our shelter locations. Our volunteers help make the world a more humane place for animals. (if you can't volunteer, there is always a need for food, blankets, etc.)

Newborns in Need

Clothing for the tiniest children

Four years ago, single mom Sue T. delivered her son Daron 14 weeks early. She was poor, alone, and by her own admission, "jaded and cynical." After searching everywhere for affordable clothing that would fit her preemie, she learned about Newborns in Need, which provides clothing and blankets for poor and premature babies.

"When the boxes arrived with the supplies I needed, it restored my faith in humanity," Sue recalls. Her situation improved, and today, she is a volunteer with the organization, helping other women and infants.

Last year, Newborns in Need volunteers distributed more than 350,000 pieces of clothing and baby gear to 2,000 hospitals, shelters, and families across the country. The organization is looking for donations of blankets, sleepers, gowns, all-in-ones, hats, booties, bottles, pacifiers, and disposable diapers. Contact: 417-967-9441 or https://newbornsinneed.org/

Local Food Pantries, Soup Kitchens are always in need of donations or volunteers.

If you are not able to get out to volunteer, you can always make online donations.

Oh, don't forget about yourself, treat yourself to a day out for you. What would you like to give to you! A piece of jewelry you have wanted, get your nails done, a lunch date with someone you haven't seen in awhile..do something for yourself that you would usually make you feel guilty!

**So, today's Bloom, make yourself feel better by giving, to others and to yourself!**

                                                          

Pearls of Wisdom by Older Woman

Today's Bloom  "Pearls of Wisdom by Older Woman"  

 

                                                                    

Remember, you are unique, Embrace Yourself, Trust Your Instinct, Never lose your Inspiration

Feeling Younger..What Works for You?

                                                                   

Well, this photograph is courtesy of Pinterest, I love the quote, the woman, her pose and the way she is dressed! Not to mention her wonderful, confident smile!

"They Say" you're only as young as you feel..let's face it, some days we all feel like a kid, some days, we feel much older than my actual age, don't you think?

What do you find helps you feel younger? A new haircut, a new outfit? Maybe wearing a smile for awhile?

I find sometimes just getting outdoors, calling a friend or listening to my favorite music.

What works for you? Feel free to share in the comment section!

Amazing Moments

                                           Sunday Blooms
                         

                                                   
My Sunday Bloom! I was able to catch a rainbow and wanted to share it here!
I was so excited and surprised when I opened the door to save a lady bug! Wow! What a reward!

I have never seen such a beautiful rainbow! It brightened up my day. Nature really is the gift that keeps on giving.

This also reminds me of how an ordinary day can turn into something special.
So many people are too busy to stop for a moment to notice amazing things around them. Precious moments can add so much to a person's life!

Wishing you many amazing moments!