In Part 1, we mastered the Sweatpants Soirée with friends. In Part 2, we re-prioritized our partners. Now, we reach the most critical installment of our Feel-Good Holiday Fun Series: Reclaiming You.
The holidays are notorious for turning us into human doing machines. We are the planners, the buyers, the wrappers, and the cheerleaders. But you can't pour from an empty champagne glass! This part is about setting aside sacred, non-negotiable time for solo self-care and intentional excursions that recharge your spirit.
The Solo Reset: Your Quiet Anchor
With the kids grown and the home base established, the self-care required is not about squeezing in chores, but about carving out time for intentional, high-quality relaxation.
1. The Spa State of Mind
This time is dedicated to beautifying and relaxing—no effort required.
Professional Indulgence: If you can swing it, book yourself a dedicated spa day. A massage, a facial, or even a professional manicure/pedicure where your only task is to relax.
Elevated At-Home Spa: If staying in is your preference, elevate your routine. Use the fancy robe, light a great candle, and dedicate an hour to an intense moisturizing treatment, a deep conditioning hair mask, or even practicing a new, dramatic makeup look just for fun. The goal is to feel stunning without the stress of an event.
2. The Quiet Culture Trip
Instead of the overwhelming holiday crowds, seek out spaces designed for peaceful contemplation.
Take Time for Quiet Culture: Visit an art gallery, a local history museum, or even a beautiful architectural space like a library or conservatory. These environments demand nothing from you except quiet observation. It’s a wonderful, low-energy way to engage your mind and experience the world without the pressure of socializing.
Intentional Outings: Recharging in the Community
Sometimes, the best self-care involves leaving the house for activities that feel restorative, not draining.
3. Shopping with Soul
The stress of holiday shopping often comes from facing crowded, generic mega-stores. Let’s change the scene.
Shop Local, Browse Slow: Turn shopping into a mindful experience. Head to your favorite downtown street or neighborhood market. The mission isn't to cross off a list; it’s to enjoy the atmosphere. Shop local stores not just for gifts, but for the pleasure of discovery. Notice the unique window displays, talk to the small business owners, and appreciate the community vibe. The experience itself is the reward.
The Takeaway: You Rock, Too
This season isn't just about sharing joy—it’s about having joy to share. Give yourself the gift of time, solitude, and intentional fun. When you feel fabulous and recharged, every other part of your holiday shines brighter.
This is Part 3 of Your Feel-Good Holiday Fun Series!
Thank you for joining us on this journey! Let us know how you prioritized joy this year in the comments!
